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rainbow689 Four Star Member


Age : 58 Joined : 15 Apr 2008 Posts : 403 Location : Laredo TX
 | Subject: Re: Is There A Doctor In The House? Thu Aug 07, 2008 12:09 am | |
| | Pam wrote: | Rainbow the diagnosis of cervical myelopathy means the Dr figured out the what, although not the why, and it seems as though figuring out why would help to figure out what to do about it. I hope that you find the information that you need, and an MRI is as good a start as one could hope.
As for jokes of the PC variety and otherwise, please keep them coming. Life is far too short to be serious all the time, as we all see in the various stages of disrepair that our bodies are in!
Carol I hope that you also get the answers that you seek and that things start getting better soon. |
I'm still not sure if he was right, it just doesn't feel right that the bug banquet had nothing to do with it and the mri may be a good idea but without insurance? I just got a bill from the laredo medical center for $6,300 for the tests they did, catscan, x-ray, ekg, bloodwork and urine! I wonder if they can whistle Dixie?
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|  | | Pam Five Star Member


Age : 43 Joined : 02 Feb 2008 Posts : 1450 Location : Nova Scotia, Canada
 | Subject: Re: Is There A Doctor In The House? Thu Aug 07, 2008 1:26 am | |
| Holy crap Rainbow. Hard to know how to reply to a bill for that much. I owe on my taxes for last year, but we expect that with taxes. Wishing you only good things Rick. _________________ Pam Robertson  http://andthebandplayedonmylawn.blogspot.com |
|  | | rainbow689 Four Star Member


Age : 58 Joined : 15 Apr 2008 Posts : 403 Location : Laredo TX
 | Subject: Re: Is There A Doctor In The House? Thu Aug 07, 2008 3:40 pm | |
| Holy crap Rainbow.
Indeed it is!
Hard to know how to reply to a bill for that much. I owe on my taxes for last year, but we expect that with taxes.
I'm not going to reply!
Wishing you only good things Rick.
Much appreciated Pam  _________________ Welcome Earthlings http://fly.to/rainbow689 |
|  | | Dick Stodghill Five Star Member


Age : 83 Joined : 04 May 2008 Posts : 1299 Location : Ohio
 | Subject: Re: Is There A Doctor In The House? Fri Aug 08, 2008 2:16 pm | |
| I appreciate what a quandary it is for you. I was on that medical treadmill for a while six or seven years ago and finally decided enough was enough - no more tests that always seemed to be inconclusive. I came to the conclusion that the medics don't know as much as they would like the rest of us to believe. "I'll see you again in three months," really means I won't know a thing then that I don't know now but each visit puts me a little closer to having the money for a yacht." It seems to me that a specialist is a doctor who has discovered where the big money is to be made. My primary care doctor at the Veterans Administration is the best of the lot and seeing her doesn't cost me a nickel. _________________ Mystery Writers of America, Private Eye Writers of America www.dickstodghill.com
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|  | | rainbow689 Four Star Member


Age : 58 Joined : 15 Apr 2008 Posts : 403 Location : Laredo TX
 | Subject: Re: Is There A Doctor In The House? Fri Aug 08, 2008 7:13 pm | |
| | Dick Stodghill wrote: | I appreciate what a quandary it is for you. I was on that medical treadmill for a while six or seven years ago and finally decided enough was enough - no more tests that always seemed to be inconclusive. I came to the conclusion that the medics don't know as much as they would like the rest of us to believe. |
I couldn't agree with you more Sir Dick, even the fact that they know something is wrong with you and won't do a damn thing about finding what it is, pronounce their diagnosis without any confirming tests, apart from the last one banging about with a reflex hammer and pushing against his hands with my arms and legs, if you don't got insurance or the wherewithall makes me believe the hippocratic oath is dead and gone may it rest in peace!
Pardon me for a small update
I get updates from that internet doctor and there's so many people posting about undiagnosed symptoms even after visting 'x' number of so called specialists and having 'x' number of tests and a recurring theme for neurological problems is a cat scan or mri. I've had two head and neck cat scans so what good might an mri do? I'm buggered if I know!
He also said I may have slept awkwardly one night and the timing with the bugs was coincidental. That still doesn't feel right to me! I have applied for disability, but no news on that yet and my extremely small amount of savings I’m trying to eke out to survive, not sure how long they will without any income whatsoever coming in, maybe a few weeks if I’m very careful, after that who knows?
Attempting to get upright after using the bathroom involves another tortuous struggle for 10 – 15 minutes to get upright and exit the bathroom. I cannot shave properly and showering is extremely difficult as in the bathroom in the RV there a mini bath and it’s another long struggle to attempt to lift my legs over the lip of the bath, while sitting precariously on the sink, where the shower is and stay upright. If I managed to sit down in the mini bath, I doubt I would be able to get up again.
I have applied at the social security for disability, however I was told that apparently the rules have been changed and ‘Legal Aliens’ (I arrived in 2001 from England to marry, unfortunately my wife passed away in 2003 and I became a Legal Permanent Resident) are not usually considered for Disability, even though I have always paid Uncle Sam tax and social security payments like every American does and I am waiting to hear of their decision.
When I was waiting in the social security a week, or so ago, everyone waiting to be seen, including the security guard was Hispanic, on both sides of the window. Not that I have a problem with this, it is a border town where 85% of the population is Hispanic of which, according to the manager of the HEB Plus supermarket, 65% do not speak a word of English! Certainly I heard precious little English being spoken at all.
What I did have a problem with as I was waiting to be called was that a large percentage of those seemingly getting benefits, or applying for them at the windows in front of me were showing their Mexican passports as identification!
WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE???
definitely NOT 
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|  | | zadaconnaway Five Star Member


Age : 61 Joined : 16 Jan 2008 Posts : 2168 Location : Washington, USA
 | Subject: Re: Is There A Doctor In The House? Sat Aug 09, 2008 4:51 am | |
| How terrible for you, Rainbow. I should think that as a legal alien, you would be entitled to something. And the bit about mexican passports is hard to swallow as well. _________________ Zada Connaway Mother's Journals: parts 1, 2 and 3 ISBN # 1-4241-6969-0
http://www.zadaconnaway.com/ |
|  | | Dick Stodghill Five Star Member


Age : 83 Joined : 04 May 2008 Posts : 1299 Location : Ohio
 | Subject: Re: Is There A Doctor In The House? Sat Aug 09, 2008 2:06 pm | |
| Slept awkwardly? That's a new one. I sure hope you discover a real answer soon. _________________ Mystery Writers of America, Private Eye Writers of America www.dickstodghill.com |
|  | | rainbow689 Four Star Member


Age : 58 Joined : 15 Apr 2008 Posts : 403 Location : Laredo TX
 | Subject: Not a good day on sunday Mon Aug 11, 2008 11:02 pm | |
| I'm sorry to report I had a really bad day last sunday, not only are there more medical bills pouring in for the negative tests but, and may I warn you, this is not pleasant to report:
On August 10, I finally arose at around 7:30 a.m. and finally after 20 minutes of trying, managed to get myself upright from sleeping on the couch into a sitting position. I found I needed the bathroom urgently.
Halfway there my legs collapsed and I fell backwards and landed with my back on the floor. I am, to say the least, not happy to report that I excreted where I lay. In some distress I desperately tried to raise myself to no avail.
In my struggles I was partially covered in my own faeces on my feet, arms, legs and back. I lay there for nearly 3 hours virtually unable to move. Just after 12 p.m. by the grace of whatever, someone came to check on me. Luckily they did, or I could have still been laying there.
Eventually with their help I managed to get into a chair, having done my best to clean myself up while laying with some luckily near by paper towels and later with some help. They helped me down the steps of the RV and got me to the park’s showers, where I managed, with some assistance to get clean again.
On returning to the RV I missed my hold on a step and even with the efforts of my Good Samaritan my legs collapsed again and I tumbled to the ground straining my gammy left arm, it felt like it nearly came out of the socket as he tried, but failed to keep me from going down for the second time today!
Still waiting for an appointment with the neurologist over the border, no news on that yet. Wish I had better news to report
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|  | | rainbow689 Four Star Member


Age : 58 Joined : 15 Apr 2008 Posts : 403 Location : Laredo TX
 | Subject: Re: Is There A Doctor In The House? Mon Aug 11, 2008 11:04 pm | |
| | zadaconnaway wrote: | How terrible for you, Rainbow. I should think that as a legal alien, you would be entitled to something. And the bit about mexican passports is hard to swallow as well. |
thanks tell me about the mexican passports even the lawyer lady didn't know what to make of it!   _________________ Welcome Earthlings http://fly.to/rainbow689 |
|  | | rainbow689 Four Star Member


Age : 58 Joined : 15 Apr 2008 Posts : 403 Location : Laredo TX
 | Subject: Re: Is There A Doctor In The House? Mon Aug 11, 2008 11:06 pm | |
| [quote="Dick Stodghill"]Slept awkwardly? That's a new one.
Yeh I thought that was a ripe one too!!!!
I sure hope you discover a real answer soon
you and me both and thanks _________________ Welcome Earthlings http://fly.to/rainbow689 |
|  | | Abe F. March Five Star Member


Age : 69 Joined : 26 Jan 2008 Posts : 1401 Location : Germany
 | Subject: Re: Is There A Doctor In The House? Tue Aug 12, 2008 5:36 am | |
| My comments about lack of medical assistance is not printable.
You must continue to press for medical help. I suggest you contact the Salvation Army and the Red Cross. Tell them who you are, your condition, that you have no insurance and are not a citizen. Ask them what to do. _________________ "To Beirut and Back" http://www.freewebs.com/abemarch "With every adversity there is a benefit." |
|  | | Carol Troestler Four Star Member


Joined : 08 Jun 2008 Posts : 556 Location : Wisconsin
 | Subject: Re: Is There A Doctor In The House? Tue Aug 12, 2008 5:50 am | |
| Rainbow,
What you need at the moment is a nursing facility to help you with basic needs and stabilization. I know that is probably not your first choice. You need help from the person who found you, ask him to be an advocate, find a nursing facility in your area, ask for an intake and social worker, have your friend describe how he found you, how you keep falling, how you can't get up, paint a worst case scenario.
I visited my mother in a nursing facility for five years. The people there were not all old, but young and stroke or accident victims, people like you. Perhaps some were paying their way or on disability, but I would imagine most were on medicaid. My mother was on medicaid as she had outlived her money, but she was disabled and needed the care facility.
You can't keep living alone. You are eligible for medicaid. You need to find a county worker in charge of determining someone for medicaid. I know going to a nursing facility can be frightening, but that is what you need, and it isn't forever.
Keep knocking on those doors until one opens. We don't have universal medical care, but there are options, and I believe if you find the right person you'll get the right care. But you need someone there with you, and you've got to tell what you have told us.
Carol |
|  | | Helen Wisocki Four Star Member


Joined : 21 Mar 2008 Posts : 200 Location : Massachusetts
 | Subject: Re: Is There A Doctor In The House? Tue Aug 12, 2008 1:05 pm | |
| Rainbow,
This is just horrible what's happening to you. I agree with Abe and Carol that you must keep pressing forward to find help. You shouldn't be alone right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you for that door to open.
Helen _________________ Helen Wisocki www.innocencebetrayedbyclergy.com www.freewebs.com/helenwisocki |
|  | | rainbow689 Four Star Member


Age : 58 Joined : 15 Apr 2008 Posts : 403 Location : Laredo TX
 | Subject: Re: Is There A Doctor In The House? Wed Aug 13, 2008 1:13 am | |
| Abe, Carol and Helen thank you so much for your concern. Abe I shall try the Salvation Army and the Red Cross, I have already emailed the AARP for any help, or advice they could offer. Someone from a list I send updates to suggested contacting the British Embassy as I'm still a British Citizen as well as a Legal Alien.
I'm trying to contact the lawyer I met regarding the possibility of medicaid, however a small light, the owners of the RV Park have made me an appointment with their friend the neurologist in Mexico for tomorrow Wednesday at 5 p.m. central time and are arranging to get me over there, so hopefully, if he's the right brain, as the lawyers sister said at the show, maybe I'll have some better news.
Unfortunately as far as not being on my own, there is nothing I can do about it at this moment other than keep my cell phone with me at all times.
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|  | | Carol Troestler Four Star Member


Joined : 08 Jun 2008 Posts : 556 Location : Wisconsin
 | Subject: Re: Is There A Doctor In The House? Wed Aug 13, 2008 3:53 pm | |
| Rainbow,
It sounds like you are on the right track. There are people out there ready to help others, and you are connecting with them, which is good.
I wish things to go well, and believe somewhere in those resources you are pursuing, there will be answers for the care you need.
Thinking and hoping for you.
Carol |
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